Best Realistic Dildo (With a guide on how to choose)

Best Realistic Dildo

Hello! Today we will be talking about what are the most realistic dildos on the market right now. In order to know what the best realistic dildo is for you, we first need to ask ourselves a couple of questions, the first one being, what is the best realistic dildo for me? You need to consider various things, the first thing to remember is that life-like dildos comin in all shapes and sizes. We will be looking at size in more detail, but this is obviously a preference for each person, the average size for a penis is anywhere from 5.1–5.9 in, anything slightly above or below really comes to personal preference.

Another thing to take into consideration is the shape, as time goes by and the adult toy technology keeps developing we keep seeing changes in shape but sometimes this means that the dildo that you might be inclined to buy doesn’t even have the shape of a penis! With that in mind, you need to make a choice and decide if you want a realistic dildo or if your in the market for a different type of toy.

Lastly I would also like to talk about feel, many times dildo can look and real and have the right size, but if it just feels like plastic or any other finish that doesn’t resemble a real penis then that might take some people out of the fantasy, so we will also be considering this factor as well. Let’s find out what’s your best option when it comes to the most realistic dildo.

Best Realistic Dildo Comparison Table




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Average Penis Size

Now, let’s go back to the average penis size. There have been many studies made to determine what the average penis size is, they all agree that the average is between 5.1 and 5.9 inches when erect, and the average penis girth is 4.9 inches. Many things have been said about race differences but these studies have revealed that the differences are usually negligible. Now that we know what the average penis size is, we can learn how to choose the right dildo size.

How To Choose The Right Dildo Size

Right of the bat, there are some considerations that we have to take when choosing a dildo, the first consideration is what size is right for me? Now that we know the average penis size, we know that the size for the most realistic dildo is around 5.1 inches, however dildos tend to be a bit longer, this is because most realistic dildos have a testicle shaped base that influences the overall size in order to make it a real looking dildo.

The other measurement is the “Insertable Length” this means that the overall size of your dildo will be different than the part that you can insert inside yourself. Girth is also a factor to consider, many women prefer a thicker dildo while others prefer something easier to insert, considering that the average penis girth is 4.9 inches most women like to go for something in the 5 inch range. Of course if you prefer to explore and work up to it, there are plenty of huge dildos available.

The last thing that we suggest you take into consideration is what texture you want your dildo to have, materials and texture can completely change the experience, some dildos are completely textureless and have a smooth surface, and some women prefer that, but for lifelike dildos, you will want to go with something that has a lot of curvature in the head and a real like shaft feel in order to get the most lifelike dildo.

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Types Of Realistic Dildos

Ok so now that we know what makes the best lifelike dildos, we need to take a look into what types of realistic dildoss there are.

Suction Cup Dildo

This is one of the most liked dildos out there. The suction cup base allows for you to be able to use the dildo in a different fashion than just inserting it, you can set it up in a wall or strategic position and you can masturbate in different positions and even ride your dildo. I would go as far as to say that this type of dildo is the best for realistic anal dildo play.

Moveable Foreskin

Now this type of dildo is for the people that want the more real skin dildo possible, with a retractable foreskin you can feel the actual motion and it can create a more intimate feeling.

Semi Circumsized

Now this is for you if you have a specific fantasy or preference, semi circumcised dildo can feel like a very lifelike experience, since it feels like an actual penis, if you’re into the look and feel of semi circumcised penises, this is the right dildo type for you.


Last but not least we will be talking about circumcised dildos, most of the time this types of dildos have a big head and it really helps with feel, similar to the semi circumcised, if you’re into the look and feel of circumcised penises, you will go mad for a dildo that is completely circumcised.

Dildo That Ejaculates (Squirting Dildo)

Ejaculating dildos are just that, dildos that cum. They usually use some sort of pump or syringe type setup which you put an artificial cum into. You can discharge it whenever you want to of course, in or on your body.


The last thing that we need to discuss before getting into the actual recommendations is the different materials that are used in realistic dildos.


For starters, silicone is one of the most prominent materials when it comes to dildos, it does feel soft and gentle and they are very durable. Silicone can be both in liquid and solid format. The texture can vary from soft to hard and is a non porous material, thus keeping fungi, mold and bacteria from breeding on it.


Next we have pvc, similar to silicone it’s a very soft feeling, a little more soft, but it can feel less life like because of this, however pvc dildos tend to be on the cheaper side so it can be a good compromise for money and quality.


Latex is another alternative to silicone, although a little more porous, it does have the same real like feel and it retains temperature for more lifelike experience.


Another very good material for a real feeling dildo is TPE or thermoplastic elastomer, this is a very premium material and many women refer to dildos of this material as the best realistic dildo for women, it’s slightly porous but it has a lot of softness that resembles real skin.


Lastly we have glass dildos, a glass dildo can provide a nice slick feeling, but it does feel a little different than the real thing. If you choose this material you’re compromising the feeling, but will have a non porous material. They do make for great anal sex, just make sure to use some lube.

Now that we know everything there is to know about how to get the best feeling realistic dildo for you, let’s take a look at our top picks for you.

This Paloquet didlo is my first recommendation, this is a great dildo for beginners and it comes with all of the belts and whistles that you expect from a quality product. With 6.7 inches of overall length and a 5.2 inches insertable length, it has a very good size for beginners. If you are looking for a small realistic dildo, this is probably a good option as it has an average sized insertable length.

It also comes with a suction base attached so that you can do some hands free play without having to worry about it moving at all. Made out of TPE and with a real feel to it, this is a great dildo to get as a solid all around choice.

This is also one of the best rated realistic dildos in the market, so you know that you are making a solid decision. Now while it does have a very realistic feel, sometimes TPE can be a little harder than other materials on the list, so take that into consideration when buying this toy. All in all I would say that this might be one of the best real feeling dildos. 

Product Features:

  • Pronounced Head, raised veins, and textured balls
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    Phthalates and Latex Free
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    Suction Cup
  • Harness Compatible


  • Strap on Compatible
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    Can be used hands free (suction cup)
  • Easy to clean
  • Pointed head for easy insertion


  • TPE can feel a bit harder than other materials
  • Chemical smell that goes away over time

Now if you’re in the market for a black dildo, look no further, this right here is the best realistic black dildo on the market at the moment. There are plenty of big dildos out there, but not all come with a suction cup, a testicle area and a hyper realistic texture made out of pvc that gives you the most realistic experience that you could have.

With an overall 8 inches from head to the base and a 6.5 inches insertable length, this one is for the more adventurous, recommended for women that have a little more experience or that are interested in ass play so it might not come as recommended to beginners as others on this list, however if you like what you see, I would suggest that you take a chance with this dildo.

Product Features:

  • Designed for Anal
  • Suction Cup
  • Can bend in any direction without distortion


  • Can be used hands free (suction cup)
  • Can bend in any direction without distortion
  • Easy to clean (Warm water and Soap or Lubricant Cleaner)


  • Chemical Smell
  • Some users say it is too thin

This one is a curve ball for sure, Paloqueth has created a real life dildo that has everything that you would expect from a regular Paloqueth dildo, overall 7 inches, for a 5.3 inches of insertable length, made out of silicone for a very safe and real life feel and it has realistic texture, coupled with a suction cup. Another nice thing about this is that it can be used in a strap-on harness. So you essentially have a strap-on dildo too!

The biggest difference with this silicone realistic dildo, is that this particular model comes equipped with a vibrating massager and a remote that you can use to control the intensity of the vibration. One of the downsides of it is that you have to charge it, but even without energy you can still have some realistic sex. This dildo mixes the best of both worlds when it comes to pleasure and real feeling,

I would recommend this dildo to anyone that is looking for a bigger sensory experience and thus resulting in a feeling of fullness. Definitely the best realistic vibrating dildo.

Product Features:

  • Built in Vibrator with wireless remote
  • Sculpted veins with a finely crafted head and balls 
  • Suction Cup
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    Double layered silicone 
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    Harness Compatible


  • Built in vibrator
  • Can be used hands free (suction cup)
  • Strap on Compatible


  • Need for charging
  • No charge level light

In this list we’ve looked at different types of dildos, all realistic and solid choices, however if you’re in the market for a more discreet dildo that still has all of the real life characteristics that make all of the other dildos in this list great, then look no further.

The Health Time dildo is made from TPE for real life like sensation and it has a 5.5 inches length, with no suction cup or balls, however this can be a plus if you’re looking for something that you can store and take with you with ease.

This dildo also features lifelike texture and a variety of colors to choose from, and with that you can pretty much customize your experience for a very fair price. You have to take into account however that this toy is a little bit smaller and has less lifelike features, though is still one of our favorite jelly dildos.

I recommend this one for all the women how are looking for something small and convenient and to all of the beginners that want to try something more tame before moving on to a large dildo.

Product Features:

  • Lifelike vein and wrinkle texture
  • Flared base
  • Made of Durable jelly material


  • Soft and Flexible
  • Great for beginners
  • Delivered in unmarked packaging


  • No Suction cup
  • Chemical smell

Now this last dildo option that we have for you today is the Anfei Hyper Realistic Dildo. This dildo has a hyper realistic texture and it has a new technology that Anfei has developed called dual density, this means that there are 2 different layers of silicone that create a very real feel.

Added to that is the fact that this Anfei has a soft but firm feel, a realistic testicle area and a super strong suction cup, you could say that this is one of the most premium choices out there. At 8.71 inches overall length and 6.32 insertable length, we have one of the bigger dildos on the list, however it’s realistic head and double layer really create one of the most authentic feels, and will provide all you ladies with some very welcome g-spot stimulation. Highly recommended for someone that is looking for a quality toy that will last a long time.

Once again I would have to clarify that this toy is not for beginners or for people looking for something small, so I would take that into account when considering this option, although this is truly one of the best products overall, I would say that this is the best realistic silicone dildo hands down and maybe even the most realistic dildo ever.

Product Features:

  • Dual Density - soft on the outside and firm inside
  • Harness Compatible
  • Suction Cup


  • Flexible
  • Strong suction cup
  • Super realistic feeling


  • Something missing or not good about the product
  • Has a false claim of being FDA approved - (FDA does not regulate or approve sex toys unless they qualify as a medical device.)


Now it’s clear that we have a decision to make, so let’s do a last look into this products. If you’re looking for the best overall dildo, with the most lifelike characteristics I would definitely choose the Anfei Hyper Realistic dildo. If you want the most discrete or if you’re looking for your first dildo and want ease of use, I would go with the Health Time dildo.

The best one for anal play and the longest comes in the for of the Beauty Molly dildo, so if you’re in the market for a black dildo with this characteristics look no further. Now the last two products are made by Paloqueth and are both very solid choices, they have very similar constructions that feature a very lifelike and solid feel, the only consideration here would be if you’re interested in the vibration feature.

No matter the case or don’t worry since they are both very solid and great options if you’re in the market for a more middle of the road, solid dildo. Remember that at the end of the day all of this is going to come down to your preference, so simply ask yourself what you need and use this as a guide to choose what the best dildo will be for you.

Let us know what you picked in the comments! 

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